One of the most asked questions among married men all throughout the world is the simple and ever popular “how do I get my wife to give me head?”.
For one reason or another, massive amounts of men find themselves lacking the pleasurable explosion that fellatio provides (they either get it rarely or none at all) once they get married – even if their wives did it in the past. This can be demotivating, depressing and can even lead into a serious handful of trouble if not addressed as soon as possible. Due to this, tons of men search for help on how to get blown.
If you’re part of the group and wondering how to get your wife to give you a blowjob, then you’ve come to the right place. While it might seem difficult, the power of information provided by science and tons of surveys make it quite simple to achieve.
After gathering and analyzing the mountains of data mentioned above, we’ve boiled it all down into an effective, easy to implement step by step guide. By following these simple tips and tricks, you’ll be on your merry way to get more head now and forever.
There are a few general concepts that you must master before starting such as cleanliness, confidence, mood and more. If you’re missing these, you can read how to achieve them here.
Now without further ado, let’s begin!
Follow these steps closely and you’ll be on your merry way to get blown by your wife.
The crucial first step. Since you’re married, you most likely already know your wife’s personality through and through so this should be easy.
Think about your wife and the key personality traits that define her. Is she adventurous and fun? Or is she more quiet and reserved? Have you noticed changes to her mood and personality over the years? Ask yourself these questions and you’ll start to form a great basis to find out why you’re facing a scarcity or complete lack of fellatio – which is often heavily related to other root causes like your wife being grossed out by it or lacking the confidence to perform it well (perfectly fine) or it can be due to disinterest and lack of love and intimacy (which is a much bigger problem).
Once you’ve done this, move on to figuring out the reason behind it all:
Now is the time to zero in and focus on the reason behind your wife not blowing you. As mentioned above, there are two main “paths” this can lead to – personality or external.
Personality is the easiest to understand and manage. It all boils down to your wife loving you completely but for some reason, she’s simply not giving you head at the moment due to something. Your wife might just be very “vanilla” (plain in bed) and dislike giving blowjobs. She might also be grossed out by the idea or lack the self-confidence to perform it (as she thinks she’ll do a bad job or is afraid to gag or swallow, among others). She might also simply not be excited enough or feeling adventurous.
It’s your job to figure out which of these points accurately reflects your wife and then act on it later to fix them, as we’ll see in the third step.
External factors are the hardest to figure out and manage. This means that something else, besides her own personality traits, is wrong. It might be a lack of intimacy, respect or even love which leads to your wife not performing oral on you. Has she gotten increasingly cold? Was she more exciting and sexually active with you before? Can you pinpoint a time where she stopped giving you head or heavily reduced the occasions? Ask yourself these questions and figure out the reason behind it. If you notice that your wife’s behavior is a reflection of these issues, then sadly it will be harder to “solve” but there are still a few ways to do it as we’ll see on the third step below.
Now that you’ve got an idea of what’s causing the lack of sexual head action in your marriage, it’s time to roll up your sleeves and fix it.
Although this will heavily depend on your results from the second step, here are some excellent tips to fix the most common issues that are keeping your wife from blowing you:
Put all the solutions discussed above into practice and bring your marriage back up to life before it’s too late. Once you’ve recovered, never let it go back down again. You’ll get your blowjobs back but more importantly – you’ll get your marriage and love back, and jokes aside that’s what really matters.
Bonus: General Tips
– Be cool, calm and collected. Exude confidence and sexiness through your actions instead of your words. Don’t talk – do.
– If you haven’t tried it yet, be proactive and go down on her first – studies show that she’ll be much more likely to reciprocate.
– When she performs, encourage her and let her know you’re loving it through verbal and non-verbal communication.
The biggest mistake a married man can make is to beg his wife – not only for a blowjob but for anything. Never, ever beg your wife for it. If you’ve done it already, never do it again. It’s unattractive, pathetic and contrary to what you might think it’ll only push her further away and worsen your chances of getting blown, and the chances of getting anything else too.
Women love confidence and self-respect, begging destroys both. Not only that but you shouldn’t have to beg in the first place – it’s just as much your wife’s duty to please you as it is yours to please her.
Never let the tables get turned and let your wife have all the control. She’ll lose respect for you, even if she doesn’t say it, and she’ll quickly lose interest in you, especially when it comes to sex. Women want mystery, power, confidence and boldness, they don’t want you to say yes to everything or to bend over for their every need – quite the opposite. This doesn’t mean you should be an uncaring asshole, not at all, but you should be assertive, confident and always have self-respect. Your wife, and any woman for that matter, will admire that, respect you in return and be much more sexually attracted to you.
Keep an aura of mystery too, don’t let her know every little thing you do or think. They love to chase and if you hand your wife all the control then she has nothing to chase for – hence the loss of interest, then loss of sex, then loss of blowjobs.
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What a ride. This has been eye opening I bet and all of us here at GetHeadGuide hope you’ve found it useful and effective. Not only are these tips extremely effective if you were wondering how to get your wife to give more head but they also apply to many other facets of marriage. Just remember to actually act on it, don’t just think about it – DO!
Thanks for reading, good luck and go get that damn blowjob!