How to Get Your Girlfriend to Suck Your Dick
Getting your girlfriend to give you head is the halfway point, in terms of relationship status, between a one-night stand and a wife. You know more about the whole situation than you do with a random girl and you’ve got much more of an established relationship, but the fire is most likely still burning and there’s a lot of excitement in your lives without much of the more mature issues that marriage tends to bring. There’s also less barriers, more free time and much more energy.
Although the steps we’ve covered in the main article still apply, the trick here, as always, is to find out the reason behind the lack of head. By doing this, you’ll be on your way to successfully deal with it and get that famously powerful explosion of pleasure. Although it might seem difficult to solve this issue, it’s actually pretty straightforward once you know the essential steps to take.
Everything you’ll see below is backed by a multitude of studies and surveys and it’s not just the regular pick-up-artist bullshit you tend to read. We want to ensure that you are successful and get your girlfriend to suck your dick so we’ve done our homework – this is the real deal.
Without further ado, let’s begin!
How to Get Your Girlfriend to Give You Head in 3 Steps
Follow these simple steps carefully and as always – be smooth.
1 – Analyse Her Personality
As her boyfriend, you probably already have a pretty good idea of how she’s like (which is a huge advantage when compared to doing this with a random girl). What are her main personality traits? Is she reserved and shy or is she more wild and outgoing? Is she very loving or more of the cold type? High sexual drive or lower? Kinky or vanilla?
Ask yourself these questions and draw a mental picture of her main personality traits as this absolutely crucial and will help you immensely in the next steps, leading to you successfully getting a blowjob from your girlfriend.
2 – Figure Out the Reason Behind the “No”
Now that you’ve got her main traits outlined, it’s time to figure out the reason behind the lack of fellatio in your relationship. First of all, has she already blown you before and simply doesn’t do it often or has she never done it at all?
If she has done it before then either she didn’t like it for one reason or the other – grossed out by it, hurt her jaw, among others – or she might lack the confidence to do it again as she thinks she’s not good at it.
If she hasn’t done it before, then she might be grossed out by the idea or afraid to try it (like mentioned above), she might lack the excitement and encouragement to go for it and she might also be very plain in bad (vanilla) and simply not enjoy it, hence not doing it.
Finally, the third option is that there’s a lack of intimacy, dedication or respect in the relationship. Although this is more commonly found in marriages, it can also happen while dating, especially if you’ve been together for a longer period of time.
Let’s take a look at how to tackle these issues and come out victorious.
3 – Act On It
No matter which of the above is the culprit, here are the best solutions you can put into practice to get your girlfriend to suck your dick:
- Grossed out by it – clean and groom yourself with the utmost care and thoroughness and show her that fellatio is natural and enjoyable. Start by taking care of your pubic hair and the surrounding hair as well – keep it groomed, clean and looking good. Clean your penis through and through and make sure that you smell fresh down below. Lastly, after you’ve properly taken care of the hygiene part, you should be proactive and go down on her first with excitement and enjoyment. Show her that you like it, that it’s natural and she’ll be much more likely to reciprocate.
- Lack of confidence/afraid – if she’s done it before and never again or never even tried it, then she’s most likely afraid to perform it. To solve this, you can tell her how much you enjoy it but to absolutely ace it, you should show her while she’s doing it. With both verbal and non-verbal communication, show her how much you love it and encourage her throughout. If she sees and feels that you love it, she’ll start to love doing it and build confidence on her technique. The end-result: an ever increasing amount of blowjobs from your girlfriend.
- Lack of excitement – although this isn’t very common while dating, it can still happen. If this is the case, you’ve got to up your game and rock her world. Be bold, adventurous, exciting and most of all – confident. Approach her sexually at unusual times and exotic locations, think about what she’s been fantasizing about and bring it to life. Be assertive, pull up a few tricks like your favorite music and blow her mind. When your girlfriend is excited, she’ll be incomparably more inclined to blow you. Once you’ve achieved this sexual “flame”, don’t ever let it die down. Find out what makes her and both of you tick, and keep it alive.
- Plain in bed (vanilla) – if your girlfriend is caring and loving but simply very vanilla when it comes to sex, you’ll probably be missing out on a blowjob. Worry not, there are still some solutions you can try. If she’s inexperienced or reserved, you have to gradually up the ante and introduce new positions, locations and techniques over time. Slowly but surely, you’ll both start to do more risque things which will inevitably lead up to your girlfriend blowing you.
- Lack of Intimacy – if this is the case, you’ll need to work a little bit harder to light the flame again and get your girl back. Be sure to read the full solutions in our wife-focused article as we’ve already covered it in-depth.
These are the most common issues and the most effective fixes. If you need extra help and want a truly step-by-step, in-depth explanation on how to get your girlfriend to suck your dick then be sure to get the full guide below.
It’s easy to understand, quick to put into practice and deadly effective!
Conclusion
With these tips by your side, she won’t be able to resist and soon you’ll be getting sucked off like never before. Remember, intimacy is essential so this isn’t purely sexual, it’s a crucial pillar if you want your relationship be healthy and long lasting.
We truly hope we’ve been able to help you and wish you the best of luck – don’t just think about it, do it!
1 comment
Christopher D Harris January 2, 2020
Thank you this was helpful