If you’ve been wondering how to get a girl to suck your dick, then you’ve come to the right place. Although it might seem difficult at first, we’ll show you just how simple it actually is – all you need to do is to learn a few general ideas and then follow a bunch of tried and tested steps to success.
This article will focus on getting a random, newly-met girl to suck your dick. If you want to learn how to get your girlfriend or wife to give you a blowjob instead then be sure to check our other articles that focus on it.
Now let’s get right into what matters – how to get a girl to give you head!
There are a few overarching keys that you need to master if you want to get sucked. Read them carefully and truly give your best to learn, practice and dominate them – they are the key not only to get sucked but to a lot of other things in life both personal and professional. They are:
Of the utmost importance, your hygiene needs to be top notch. From head to toe, and especially on and around your dick since you’ll hopefully be using it. Make sure your pubic hair is well kept and that your junk is perfectly clean. Remember to keep it smelling nice and fresh as well.
Again, your hygiene should be absolutely perfect, not just “good”. Take your time and give it your all.
With the little time you’ve had (if it’s a newly met girl), you’ll have to get a rough idea of how the girl’s personality is. Wild or reserved, shy or outgoing, loving or cold, among others.
Everything you do next will depend on this so be sure to really think hard about it.
As always, confidence is key. Don’t mistake this with being a douchebag – on the contrary, you should be respectful and well-behaved. Be sure of yourself, assertive, bold and never second guess. Although it’s not easy to just “be confident” if you normally aren’t, you can always fake it ’till you make it and in this case it works perfectly well – as is evidenced by this study and many more like it.
The mood is incredibly important, as you might expect. The past is just as important as the present – where have you been together before? A club or a restaurant? Was it calm or rowdy? After considering this, take steps to ace the current mood. Pay attention to the lights, the sounds (music or lack of it), the eye-contact and to the way you communicate. Put the pressure, tension and sexiness all the way up and create an irresistible ambiance.
Read her body language. Quickly analyse her reactions, her facial cues and her movements to detect how she’s feeling and what she’s liking or disliking. Once you’re getting hot and heavy, use body language to communicate to her that you want to get your dick sucked. Grab your dick and glance at it, go down on her and position yourself so she reciprocates, etc… If you can do it without words, it’s always better and more effective.
Reading body language always seems daunting at first but with some practice and mindfulness you’ll get there. Have a look at this quick video to get an introduction to the skill and some popular signs:
Be sure to read the main article to learn more about these 5 key concepts. After you dominate them, you can focus on the next part which will get a girl to suck your dick.
Now you might be wondering – these tips are fantastic, but how do I put them into practice? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. If you need some extra help and the best step-by-step guidance you can get, then take a look at the guide below.
While it was nearly impossible for me to find a good guide that I could trust – this is it. It’s in-depth, effective, based on facts and has none of that pick-up-artist bullshit that we all hate. Highly recommended as it will be there with you every step of the way from the “hello” until the blow!
Now let’s do a quick Q & A with the two most popular questions about this subject that I haven’t had the chance to answer yet:
Q: Do you know how to make a girl suck your dick?
A: Wrong choice of words there – you shouldn’t “make” her do anything. A lot of people similarly ask how to convince a girl to give you head but just remember this – if you do everything above correctly, she’ll WANT to do it.
Q: What’s your thoughts on how to ask a girl to suck your dick?
A: This is closer to where you should be aiming but still, no cigar. See, in most cases you don’t ask her at all as it’s quite a turn off. Through the use of body language (non-verbal cues), you’ll be able to “ask” her without saying a word – and that’s the true winning technique.
Conclusion
Now that you know how to get a girl to blow you, put all that you’ve learned here into practice and your chances of getting that oh-so-sweet fellatio will be as high as possible. Master the concepts, practice the steps and go get your dick sucked!