How to Get a Blowjob
Known due to the immeasurable pleasure it gives you and due to its sexy dominant factor, blowjobs (also known as head or fellatio) are by far the most popular sexual act of the world.
The sultry looks you get from a girl while she’s going down on you, the explosion of pleasure and the incredible feeling you get when grabbing her hair and moving her head up and down – these are all key factors on why it’s so beloved in the world of sex.
Although they’ve been booming in popularity, blowjobs can still be quite difficult to receive because some women just aren’t comfortable giving them. From one night stands to your regular girlfriend or even wife, it can be tricky to convince someone to do it and while confidence, like most things in life, is certainly key, there are also a whole lot of other factors at play that you can manipulate in your favor.
If you’re in this position yourself and wondering how to get a blowjob, then you’ve come to the right place. Today we’re going to be taking a look at quick and easy, tried and tested steps you can take to guarantee that you finally get your girl to give you that heavenly sensation.
All the steps are backed by scientific data – studies and research of psychology, physiology, among others – and results from massive surveys as well to ensure that everything is truthful, accurate and effective. Follow these and you can’t fail. Now without further ado, let’s dive in!
How to Get Your Dick Sucked in 6 Steps
Before we move on to the steps, we’ve gotta talk about the essential general tips you should follow to ensure success. Without having these keys in check you’ll never get far, so be sure to completely master them.
1 – Personality
First things first. How’s the girl you’re with? Is she adventurous and a risk taker? Is she more reserved and conservative? Is she upfront or shy?
These are all questions you’ve gotta ask yourself, and figure out, before moving on as all of your actions will have to adjust accordingly.
If she’s rowdy and fun you can feel more at ease, be more direct and rough with your approach. If she’s shy and conservative though, you’ll have to be much more smooth, subtle and slow with your approach.
Always figure out her personality before you act (a rough overview is enough if you’ve just met and if she’s your girlfriend or wife, you probably already have a perfect idea of how she is).
2 – Hygiene
Although this one’s obvious, it can’t be stressed enough due to just how insanely important it is. From the first steps of attraction – good looks, cologne, clean hair, well dressed – to the final steps when you’re already getting hot and heavy – fresh breath, tidy hair, perfectly clean penis – hygiene is key.
Just put yourself in her shoes – would you really go down on someone with bad hygiene, weird smells and unkept body? It’s just as gross to her as it is to you. Use deodorant, a great cologne, brush your teeth as often as possible and always keep your hair – both on your head and down there – looking clean and fresh.
Keeping yourself fit is also a great bonus.
3 – Confidence
As cliche as it is, confidence truly is essential. From the first time you meet a woman to the moments where you’re already in a room together, you’ve got to be confident about yourself, your looks and your skills. Sex is fun so just relax, enjoy the ride and have no fear – push your doubts aside and act with strength and cool confidence.
This should be present in both what you say and in what you do. Women love it and it’ll get them much more inclined to do what you want – which will obviously be of tremendous help when you’re aiming to get a blowjob.
Although it’s hard to turn on the “confidence” switch if you haven’t got it on naturally, do your best to own it. The “fake it ’till you make it” saying rings very true in this case – as evidenced by this study – so apply it if you need to.
4 – Mood
If you want to get any action going, especially a blowjob, the mood’s gotta be sexy, hot and powerful. Even women who have no issues with giving one will be turned off from it if you’ve got a cold, lifeless ambiance going on.
Make it exciting, interesting, sexy and most of all – fun and enjoyable. That’s what it’s all about.
The four big players in mood are the precedent (what happened before – dinner, club, movie, etc…), the place (room’s look, smell, feel), the sound (sexy music, although highly subjective, always helps although silence can also be great) and the interaction (closely dancing together, strikingly sexy looks at each other, foreplay).
If you want to ace the mood, keep these 4 elements in mind and use them to your advantage.
5 – Body Language
After everything else is in place, it’s all up to body language. Although it’s in play from the very first moment you lock eyes with someone, it’s especially important when you want to get your dick sucked.
Be sure of your movements, be smooth and sexy but most of all – read her body language as well. Get an overview of how she’s feeling through her reactions, expressions and facial cues. This way you’ll know what’s working and what’s not, letting you adjust your behavior and focus on what’s getting her happy and excited.
Although reading body language can seem tricky at first, you’ll get better with practice. Take a look at this quick, fun video introduction to it:
Although it’s more geared towards the first approach, you’ve got quite a lot of great, all-encompassing tips in there such as: playing with her hair and seductive eye contact coupled with a smile when she’s attracted to you or nervousness or uncomfortable, among others, when she isn’t.
This lets you know what to do and what not to do when you’re getting in on with a girl as she’ll tell you if she’s liking it or not through body language – just keep an eye out.
6 – Take the Initiative
Instead of repaying the favor, catch her by surprise and do it first!
Women love getting head just as much as guys and more often than not, she’ll be expecting you to repay the favor if she goes down on you. The trick here to positively explode your chances of getting your dick sucked though is to be proactive and go down on her first!
Studies show that if a woman hasn’t performed fellatio on you yet, they’ll feel much more inclined to do so after you’ve pleasured them first. The difference is astonishing and it’s a tried and tested technique so if you want to heavily improve your chances – do it!
When you’ve mastered this art, you won’t have to ask her to give you a blowjob (which can be a major turn-off) as you’ll be able to do it through body language and motions alone. You can read more into this, but grabbing your dick and glancing at it, smoothly and subtly moving her head close to it, among other techniques, are all fantastic ways to communicate that you want her to give you a blowjob while keeping it fluid and sexy.
Now that you know the essential concepts, you’re ready to get to work! To learn the details, techniques and other tricks in a step-by-step way, be sure to take a look at the full guide below:
After reading a million other guides by so called “experts”, this one is the rare exception that’s actually worth it. It’s chock-full of great, practical information that’s based on reality and not on fiction. Highly recommended.
For a more in-depth take on how to get blown in a specific type of relationship, be sure to read our other articles:
- How to get a blowjob from a girl
- How to get a blowjob from your girlfriend
- How to get a blowjob from your wife
These adapt better to your particular situation and further ensure that you end up getting head.
Conclusion
By following these simple but insanely effective tips, you’ll be on the right path to get that sweet, sweet blowjob. No bullshit information, made-up claims or tips from ridiculous pick up artists – this is the real deal so take note, put them into practice and hey – have fun!
